Every Woman My Widowed Father Dated Disappeared by Morning—So I Asked My Best Friend to Find Out Why

Dad approached dating with the earnestness he brought to everything. Before each meeting, he called to tell me where they were going, what she did for work, and which shirt he had chosen. I teased him about asking his daughter for fashion advice, but privately I treasured the excitement in his voice.

The women sounded wonderful. One was a librarian who loved old mysteries. Another owned a neighborhood bakery. A third spent her weekends helping at an animal shelter. Dad never spoke about them as trophies or possibilities to be evaluated. He seemed grateful that they had trusted him with an evening.

The first date went beautifully. He called afterward and described the conversation, the dessert they had shared, and the joke that made his companion laugh so loudly people at another table turned around. She had agreed to see him again.